Thursday, August 31, 2006

gone

Something is gone relative to the boundaries of a place or area. We use this word quite frequently to describe someone who isn't present, despite the fact that they still exist somewhere. The connotation, however, is one of nonexistence, thanks largely to the use of the word to describe the deceased. Use of the word in this way is rather existential - the religious among us often respond to it by affirming that the person in question isn't really gone, but is simply no longer present on this plane. To such a degree is the implication of the word so final; it makes people uneasy to hear it applied to even the most permanently absent, thereby encouraging the mental creation of an area, a set of boundaries beyond all we can see and hear and know in this life, implying that there is more.

1 Comments:

Blogger brd said...

I have lately been contemplating the use of that term gone when we can't bring ourselves to say the word death. Two young people of our acquaintance have "passed" (another replacement word) recently. On the other hand, a friend, very much alive, has left my location and life. In this regard the word death has popped to my mind more than once, though they are just gone. Your thoughts in regard to this word reminded me that I'm not the only one who commits this sleight of tongue.

September 03, 2006 8:04 AM  

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